At the moment I'm single and dating off and on, so boys/guys/men tend to come into my head pretty often, and usually end up frustrating me with their confusing and silly ways :(
I know I'm not the only one, and that is something that makes me feel better during down times.
SO some lessons I've learnt through hooking up, dating, relationships and heartbreak..
- 'I don't know', means no.
- If you ask a guy out or to do something on a specific date and they say they can't (busy,holiday,sport,etc), if they are actually interested then they will suggest another time, otherwise don't bother.
- Boys will try and not hurt you by holding things back or lying. Men do not.
- Learn to give a good massage, very useful, especially if your trying to get out of sex.
- 'I just want to be single for a while, I'm not interested in seeing anyone', translates into 'I don't want to be with you or I just want sex, no strings attached'. WARNING: I have tried many times and can honestly say that trying to change a guy's mind about this is extremely difficult, be prepared to have your heart broken :(
